Men usually don’t take forever to climax but there are times when he needs your help to get there. HEre are things you can say to help
Usually, we speak more about men satisfying women, things to do, how to do them, and all that. But for a change today, we’re going to look at how ladies can help them men reach orgasm. We know it’s weird because it seems because men usually don’t need much help getting their orgasms.
Sometimes men can be in this situation where it seems they’re going at it on and on for a prolonged time where he has a problem climaxing.
Men are stimulated visually and by what they hear. What you tell me can help me reach orgasm. According to Reddit user who asked the question, “What can a woman say to make a man come quicker?” Here are some of the most interesting responses received, reports Laura Hampson, Daily Star.
1. Dirty talk
This always does the trick, the narration of what is happening which is similar to running commentary always works. “Personally any dirty talk that says that you want me to come, or that you wanna feel/swallow it/whatever works pretty well.”
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2. Whose property is it?
Telling him you belong to him during sex is one sure way of ramping him up. The sound of him hearing that just sparks off some bright light in his head. “When my girlfriend whispers me something along the lines of ‘You’re mine’ I can’t hold it back.”
3. Call his name
When you call your partner’s name during sex, it gives him the impression that you’re there with him and enjoying it. Babe and other pet names aren’t bad but calling his name just means more attention to details. “My GF recently started saying my name and it’s pretty damn hot.”
4. Moan into his ears
By moaning into his ears, he knows you’re enjoying it, which gives makes him want to satisfy you more and invariably leads him to cum. “My SO just moans in my ear while she’s on top – cum almost instantly.”
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5. Be in the zone with him
Another thing you can do is to be there with him in the moment, let him know you’re both in it together totally focused on the sex. “Anything that communicates enthusiasm and excitement. There is no bigger turn-on than being wanted.”
6. Encourage him
While you’re both at it, moan and tell him crazy things. For example, keep going, don’t stop. “‘I want you to come in me’ that’ll work.”
7. Tell him what you enjoy
Telling what you want him to do to you is one of the greatest turn-ons ever. “Blunt stuff, like ‘this is what I think about when I touch myself.’ Knowing the girl is really into me and into what I’m doing is pretty sexy.”
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8. Let him know your orgasm is approaching
One other way to spur your partner to his orgasm is to him when you’re climaxing, it will make him get there even sooner. “‘I’m gonna come.’ My dick tries to betray me every time.”